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Posts tagged as “motivation”
You can learn a lot from being a pet owner and the lessons begin from the first day your furry family member steps into your life and continue after you say your final farewell.
Sometimes in order to give something to someone you have to allow yourself to receive something from it. Discover this powerful secret for giving a wonderful gift to someone.
One day when my son related the story of Jonah to Fred the green rabbit I was struck by how close to home the story strikes--for Noah, for me, for all of us.
Human life is fraught with adversity -- both physical and emotional -- although each person's experience varies greatly. In order to survive adversity, to overcome loss and difficulty, and to succeed in life a person must have inner resources to draw from.
I have counseled individuals, couples, families and business partners for the past 35 years and authored eight published books. Every individual IΒve worked with has had some abandonment wound to heal, and most relationship problems stem from abandonment wounds.
One of the most memorable quotes that I heard from a trainer came from a man I knew named Rizal:
ΒAs trainees, you are supposed to interrupt me if you donΒt understand something. You are supposed to ask questions. But you are not to go ahead of where we are in the class. All of the sections will be covered in due time.Β
As a trainee, I could not have agreed more with Rizal. He made an impact on me. He was one of the best trainers I have ever known. What made him a great trainer was that he loved his career. (Notice I didnΒt say job.) I knew he viewed his classroom as more than just a place to go to work everyday.
This is a question that most people grapple with from time to time and it has largely been on my mind this past week.